By not wearing make up you are BETRAYING other women.
No, I’m not serious, I actually have brain cells. The views above are of Daily Mail writer Liz Jones.
The below picture of Holly Willoughby (UK TV Presenter) without any make up on drove Liz Jones into what could only have been a jealous rage which resulted in her writing her article ‘Why Holly’s BETRAYING women by going barefaced’
She said that by posting ’no make up’ pics, celebrities like Holly are ‘peddling a fantasy’ and calls it ‘arrogant over confident one-upmanship’.
That’s right ladies and gents, by (bravely, in my book) going bare faced and showing that you are a normal human being with imperfections, being a positive role model for women, like me, who can be made insecure about how they look by all of the professionally made up and airbrushed celebs we see, you are simply being arrogant and over confident. Apparently you are just saying ‘look I don’t need make up to look good.’
I can’t comment on what celeb motivations are for going bare faced, but even if it is just ‘I look good without make up’ I still think that is a pretty positive message. That message is that make up is not necessary, your face does not need to be improved.
Liz is her own downfall, she tells in the article of all of the beauty procedures she has undergone and shows an unflattering picture of herself basically saying, I have had so much work done and I don’t look as attractive as Holly Willougby without makeup so she is just being arrogant.
’Despite Botox, a facelift, laser treatment for dark spots and thread veins, lash extensions and a brow tattoo, I still resembled a blowfish with a rosacea problem.’
She says ‘The reason for posting this photograph was to prove that most of us look like this without make-up, and there is no shame in doing so.I would never go out looking like this, but I felt it important to show the reality of a woman’s face — even though my face has been much tampered with and covered with expensive unguents over the years — is blotchy, puffy, lined … real, in fact.’
Firstly, if there is no shame in looking like that, why would Liz never go out like that?
Secondly, Liz’s face is not a ‘real’ portrayal of what women’s faces look like, it is what HER face looks like, and not what it looks like naturally either, what it looks like after all the botox, facelifts and laser treatment.
Thirdly, she said she would never go out looking like that, she doesn’t go out without makeup on and usually looks like this, which is probably why she feels so insecure about her ordinary face.
Here is my message to Liz.
Dear Liz,
Just because you only feel you look good when you have make up on does not mean that people who leave the house without make up on are arrogant. It means you are insecure and jealous. It is people like you Liz, who want women conforming to beauty ideals by shovelling on the make up and getting botox and laser treatment, who are working against women. You are the anti-feminist.
Sometimes I wear make up and sometimes I don’t, the decision is up to me. Whether I am BETRAYING or INFLUENCING other women shouldn’t factor in my decision to wear make up. Other women can do whatever they want, they can make their own decisions and so can I.
One of those decisions is not to hate people who don’t wear make up, even if they look 10 times better than me. Such jealousy between women is poison.
I’d love to know your thoughts on this, please comment
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I quit wearing makeup, and this morning I got a comment on that article mentioning the idea that NOT wearing makeup is ANTI-feminist, so I did a quick search to see on what grounds anyone was arguing that, and I found Liz Jones’s article and yours. I totally agree with you!
Furthermore, I think she looks just fine without her makeup. She looks like a different person, like a nicer person instead of some bitch on TV! The horrible things she says about her appearance are really very sad.
I’m a girl I never wear make up, I work for a company before in some sort of office. I went to a gathering I was invited to. I had no make up on, but I was accused of it. at work I usually wore glasses and hid my face with my hair and I wasn’t fix properly. But at the gathering I had no make up on, no glasses, my hair was all fixed, naturally curly and I dressed up nice. When I went back to work I was fired because I was being fake. He asked me in the office ‘do you wear make up’ i said no… and then he acted like to say i was a liar, and I’m like sitting there and thinking: sorry should i slap a face-wipe on my face in front of you to prove im not wearing make up. And my manager was a man. So I got fired for being a fake. and he also said to me that he would only give/let me keep my job if I sleep with him.
Well, clearly you’re better off without that boss!! I hope you have a great new job.
Very controversial blog post topic! In fact, it caught my eye and it took not even a second thought to click in and read more. 1. Women are ALL beautiful, with or without makeup. 2. Some women who wear too much makeup actually go off the deep end and can be seen as “hideous” to men AND women. 3. Makeup should never be a “saving grace” for boosting confidence or making them feel “good enough” to going out in public or on a date.
Makeup or not, women should learn to love themselves for who they are on the inside. We all know women who may be all made up and looking gorgeous but who are truly ugly inside. Don’t be that girl! Don’t accept the poison ideas that society feeds women about only being pretty enough to be seen by others when you have makeup on.
I also keep a blog that discusses healthy self-image for men and women on my website at http://AdvancedCosmeticSurgeryNY.com.
Thanks again for a GREAT post
Especially fun to read everyone’s comments.
I’m glad that you enjoyed the post and I really like what you said about poison ideas that society feeds women about only being pretty enough with makeup on. It’s an unexpected view point from someone in cosmetic surgery, I’d be interested to know what you think about the role society plays in the motivations of people who recieve plastic surgery.
Thanks for taking the time to comment
Hi masquerade,
Thanks for the reply. The motivations for plastic surgery are probably less vain than the average person would think. For moms who come in, much of the time they WERE happy with their body before they had a child; simply put, the changes of being pregnant have changed their body. Often times, they just want to look more like they did before.
For some patients, the aging process of the skin and facial muscles is something they would like to do with more grace than what is happening naturally. A facelift, Botox, eye lift, etc. bring them to a place where they look as young on the outside as they feel on the inside.
Some patients simply want to look a little more curvy in places and others come in to have an injury or birth defect fixed.
Thanks for asking! Hope that puts a better face on the reasons why patients get plastic surgery (from our perspective).
OH GOD. She seems psychotic and pathetic.
Yeah there is definately something not right in her head x
inferiority complex
we’ll just looks like a woman that woke up on the wrong side of the bed to me.
hahaha lol I guess she did x
Reblogged this on Miss Ayo Délé.
Amazing, I reblog it.
Glad you liked it and thanks for the reblog
Just reblogged it by the way.
Reblogged this on bibeautyful and commented:
This is, (beauty subject in consideration) the ‘what not to use journalism for’ article.
Liz is trying to give us the poisoned apple here. Fits perfect doesn’t it? The whole Queen and Snow White thing. Gah, even in storybooks it’s happening. And to be honest, the media itself, whether online or on paper, etc, they’re slowly poisoning us indirectly with many things, but at the end of the day, it’s really up to us to take the bite. (there, I let out my intentional referral to the story of Snow White to this blog. ) =) loved this by the way, I wanted to comment earlier but my phone (WP on Android is crap) wouldn’t let me.
You’re right, it’s a total snow white story, evil queen having a tantrum because she is not fairest of them all. Thanks for commenting and thanks for the reblog
x
You’re more than welcome. =)
what an idiot woman. lol. glad no one pays her much mind then!
Totally agree
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Love this blog!! I’d love to know what my readers think!
Can I LOVE this post? There really needs to be a ‘love’ button!
Ok. So, makeup is such a farce, isn’t it? Kind of like a push up bra, its a lie in order to make people look at you. I personally don’t wear any makeup, unless I have a special event to go to. However, the minute I get in my car, I start to take it off. I honestly can’t believe a woman, a journalist, would ever write something like this. I wonder what ‘Liz’ looked like before all her surgery. It didn’t help her, in a any way. I think that having botox, surgery and whatnot is an offense against women worldwide. Embrace your beauty…..its YOU.
I’m gonna reblog this.
Hey, glad you liked the post , and thanks very much for the reblog
And yeah make up is a farce, we wear it to hide our imperfections etc but hey if you feel a bit better with a bit of concealer on then why not? I just think it ludricrous to say that if you don’t wear make up you are betraying women. That is not Journalism, this blog is more journalistic than that woman’s jealous poison.
I agree. Wear it if you feel good. WHo gives a damn? Its not my place to tell someone to wear/not wear something. I checked it out. You are so right about it not being journalistic. You do write more truth than she does, the difference is she believes her lies. Its sad, really. Journalism isn’t supposed to becatty and hateful. Women shouldn’t be.
Totally love this and I 100% agree with you. I never read the article, but I can’t believe another woman would spout this poison. I think Holly looks perfectly stunning with or without make-up and I’m happy and secure enough in myself not to care. I don’t wear make-up unless I’m going to a party. What you see it what your get. Instead of OMG you look vile without make-up comments. I get you look good today on a normal none make-up and a oh my god you look gorgeous when I do decide to wear make-up. Life is about choices, and that includes whether or not to wear make-up. We shouldn’t be hating on other women about something so trivial.
My message to Liz – If you don’t like it, don’t look.
Hi Helen, thanks for commenting
I agree that it is all about choices, what people do with their own face is up to them, hating someone or accusing someone of betraying women because they do or don’t wear make up is just idiocy. I’m glad you get compliments with no make up on, I bet loads of women do and so they should. It’s important that we know that not wearing make up does not automatically make us hideous.